Hey there! If you haven’t put two and two together, my name is Demi or Dee (They/Them) and I run S3x Theory with Demi!
I’m a London based, queer, nonbinary, qualified RSHE educator and freelance gender and sexuality content creator.
My full-time role is Content Creator for Pinknews, but I also create content via my own page on various platforms such as Instagram, Patreon, TikTok, deliver RSHE and gender, sexuality workshops and panel discussions, create freelance content for various organisations and charities, ambassador for JustLikeUs UK and Fumble, all whilst completing my Masters Degree in Gender, Sexuality, and Culture – wild, I know!
I am also featured in Sophia Galer Smith’s latest book, ‘Losing it: Sex Education in the 21st Century‘ and am quoted as ‘Quietly revolutionary‘.
I have always been open about sex, being known as the ‘go-to’ person to talk to about anything taboo during my school years but I only began to have open conversations about sex, relationships and queerness via my position as a queer writer and the editor-in-chief of CUB Magazine, Queen Mary university’s of London‘s home magazine and my radio show, Soft Limit. Then during the pandemic, I decided to take my love of sex education to Instagram and a year later, S3x Theory with Demi stands at 14K+ followers.
I also freelance write content via blogs/Tiktoks/Instagram posts for various blogs on queerness, language and my own experiences as a queer person, including Brook, Fumble, Va Va Womb, The Knude Society and various other outlets, both online and physical.
I’ve also worked with sex positive or sexual health companies such as Durex, Lovehoney, Pasante, SHL.UK, creating content for them on their platforms.
As I mentioned, I am a nonbinary individual who is queer is all sense of the word, however, my coming out and coming to terms with my identity has not been an easy or smooth journey. It’s why I decided to shift my focus from generic sex educational content to LGBTQ+ focused content. It is also why I am a proud ambassador for JustLikeUs UK, a charity with the mission to empower young people to champion LGBTQIA+ equality.
I currently run workshops, whether that be via an institute, company or self-led, including GoldSmith, QMUL, OHNE and QueerCultureClub. I am currently open for workshops – head to the ‘workshop‘ page to find out more!
My content via Patreon focuses on all things LGBTQIA+ and sex, including book reviews, behind-the-scenes, early access to workshops, a Patreon only Discord server and much more. My patrons also have a chance of winning, Patron of the Month, which involves receiving a hand-written letter from myself, as well as a monthly dedication post via my IG as a thank you for the support. You can find out more about my tiers and content via the ‘Patreon‘ page.
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